Through the eyes of a woman: A genuinely attentive guy

Most men tend to forget about the fact that women are not trophies or toys but actual human beings who need attention and care every single day. Yes, women are sensitive and emotional and they need to be nurtured - it’s not something that can stop once you’re over the initial “attraction and romance” stage.

A woman needs to feel she’s more than just an employee, a wife or a mother. She needs real conversations with a man who actually listens to what she has to say. You must tell her how beautiful she is even when her hair is messy and her eyes are puffy in the morning - she might not seem to believe you but she must feel loved and accepted even when she’s far from perfect. Kiss her as much as you can and hold her tight for as long as you can.

Make her laugh, surprise her, make sure she knows how important she is to you. There’s no need for grand gestures, just make sure you bring her flowers from time to time - even the smallest of gifts can light up her world. Compliment her and send her messages of appreciation. Tell her how you feel about her and how thankful you are for her. Appreciate her and all she does for you and do not fail to recognize her efforts to please you. Whenever she’s wearing a new dress or does something different with her hair, it’s all for you so make sure to tell her how much you like what you’re seeing. Spoil her, make love to her and tell her how crazy you are about her.

Be there for her when she’s scared or doesn’t know what to do. Encourage her. Show her that she can count on you. Do your absolute best to protect her even when you need to protect her from herself. Thank her for all she does for you - all those tears and sleepless nights were for you. Be proud of how strong and persistent she is. Tell her that she the one you want and make sure you actions reflect what you’re saying.

She must know there’s no one else for she is everything to you and no one could compete with that. Tell her you need her. Telling her how you feel will not make you look weaker; on the contrary, it will show how trustworthy you are.

You must be her strength when she’s weak - support her and love her and she’ll be the most grateful woman you’ve ever met. She’ll give you everything and she’ll do anything for you. All you have to do is keep the flame alive. If you do so, you’ll enjoy her warmth forever.

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